10 Reasons to Buy a Jump Rope

Feeling overwhelmed, hopeless, and held hostage by late night food cravings, I was caught in a vicious cycle of losing a few pounds and gaining them back again. For the most part I attempt to eat healthy everyday. But when a cheat day turns into a cheat week, or a cheat month it all falls apart. A closet full of clothes and nothing looked right on me any more. Lack of motivation, work, travel, injuries, not sleeping well, heat, rain, one excuse after another for over a year led to gaining back almost half of the weight that I had worked so hard to lose.

Several months ago I went to a Sexual Health Seminar for Women over 50 put on by the National Council on Ageing. The seminar focused on several aspects of health and they gave out great gift bags filled with all sorts of treasures. One of which was a jump rope. A jump rope? At my age? I looked at it, smiled over the memories of double dutch with my cousins, and laid it aside.

I prayed for relief from the ups and downs of trying to get back into a workout routine so I could not only lose the weight but sleep better and feel better. I vowed to run more, eat right, drink more water, and get to bed at a decent hour.  I was doing well. I had stopped the weight gain but was still looking for a breakthrough to get back to where I had been.

A few weeks ago a friend sent me a workout video featuring different jump rope techniques. I watched it and laughed. But, something about it kept nagging at me. I got curious and decided to research the benefits of jumping rope. And I was shocked to discover so many reasons to stop laughing and start jumping!

I eagerly but awkwardly picked up my jump rope and tentatively got started. A week later I was again able to pray like the Psalmist, “O Lord my God, I cried to you for help, and you restored my health.”

I couldn’t do much at first. Just a few minutes. I gradually worked up to ten. Then I realized that I could do 50 revolutions with the jump rope followed by 10 push ups. And then I added in squats and chair dips. And a workout routine unfolded. Ten minutes turned into 15, 30, or even 40 minutes. Each day getting more creative and stronger. After the first week I was down 5 lbs and feeling better about myself than I had in a long time.

I’ve discovered a multitude of personal benefits from simply jumping rope but I’ll just share 10 of them here:

1- it blasts calories!

According to Science Daily it’s equivalent to running an 8 minute mile. Jumping rope burns 10-16 calories per minute. Because I’m a slow runner this one made a huge impression on me. It takes me 25 minutes of running to burn the same amount of calories as 20 minutes of jumping rope.

2- it helps improve balance, quickness, and coordination

One of the reasons I quit running for a few months was fear of falling. I had three falls over the past year, the last one in February and I didn’t want to go through that again. Jumping rope took away the fear of falling and allowed me to still get in a high quality workout.

3- one of the best workouts for brain health

Keeping the brain healthy and strong is definitely one of my goals. And the best workouts for the brain involve coordination, rhythm, and strategy.

4- increases bone density

Bone health decreases the risk of injury due to falling and helps maintain a healthy immune system.

5- affordable

You don’t have to join a gym or purchase any expensive equipment. All you need is a jump rope that is the right length for you!

6- convenient

The weather won’t matter and your busy schedule or travel won’t get in the way. You can take it anywhere and use it at anytime of the day.

7- improves muscle tone in legs and lower body

According to Muscle and Fitness jumping rope does more than just give calves a good workout—it also helps to tighten and tone your rear delts, abdominals, quads and hamstrings.

8- helps strengthen lung capacity

As a singer this one is vital to me. I’m always looking for ways to improve my breathing. This exercise encourages your body to use oxygen more efficiently. Resulting in your heart, lungs, and circulatory system being strengthened.

9- lower impact workout with high impact benefits!

According to WebMD if it’s done properly it is less impact on the joints than jogging. The key is to make sure that you are doing it properly by staying on your toes and using your body’s natural shock absorbers.

10- it's fun!

It's exciting to know that I can do the same exercise as an elite boxer or a child on the playground and feel challenged to do more and get encouraged by the results.

I no longer feel as if I have to get up by 6 to get outside to run before it gets too hot. If it rains I’m not held hostage inside waiting for the storm to pass. I won’t give up running altogether. I do love to be outside and I love time I spend out there praying and hearing from God. I still run 2-3x’s a week. But, I find myself looking forward to at least 15 minutes each day with the jump rope. And 2-3x’s times a week I add in body weight exercises as well.

Thanks to the National Council on Ageing in Belize and my friend Camilah, I feel better, I’m sleeping better, and my clothes fit better all because of a simple jump rope!

Can Your Toothpaste Transform Your Relationship?

Have you ever woken up, looked at the time, and immediately gotten pissed off? Did you take it out on the first person who crossed your path? Or maybe that's only happened to me?

One morning Tom and I were scheduled to be in Belize City to meet up with people coming in on a cruise ship and we absolutely had to leave the house by 9:30 that morning. Which is why I was frustrated when I saw that it was already 8:45. As the realization set in that I had missed my alarm my anger began simmering. I went from simmering to boiling as I stripped down to jump in the shower only to find gross looking water about an inch deep in the bathtub.

Seriously, God?

Does Tom know the tub is clogged? Where is he?

Wrapped in a towel, holding a plunger with one hand and my towel closed with the other, I tried to unplug the clog to no avail. It simply would not drain fast enough. I grabbed a washcloth, a bar of soap, and turned on the water in the sink and washed off. After cleaning up I got dressed as fast as I could. I made my way out to the living room to see my fully dressed husband sitting there engrossed in whatever was on his iPad. And I lost it. I went off about him not waking me up, the water in the bathtub, and us needing to leave on time. I knew what he was going to say about the pipes and humidity and that just made me even more indignant. He said what I thought he would say and of course I had to fuss some more because I needed the last word.

Stomping off to the bathroom to brush my teeth I felt like a pressure cooker releasing its steam. Grabbing the nearest tube, squeezing hard, my toothbrush was quickly covered with a gooey white substance. Shoving the toothbrush into my mouth, wondering why the paste looked as if it had melted, I silently cursed the humidity here in Belize. As soon as the brush hit my mouth heat began to form on my tongue and in my gums. It wasn’t toothpaste that I grabbed. It was muscle rub. I spit out what I could, grabbed the tube to move it to a safer spot, washed off my toothbrush, found the toothpaste, double checked that it was actually toothpaste, put it on the brush all the while continually spitting out the taste of muscle rub. It was quite a sight I’m sure.

My grandmother would call that a whooping from God. And I knew right away I deserved it.

Proverbs 13:3 reminds me that, “Those who control their tongue will have a long life; opening your mouth can ruin everything.”

That happened back in January during a 21 day period of fasting and seeking God’s plan for the new year. At the end of each year I pray for a word that will guide my thoughts and goals for the new year. I had been given the word Connection for 2017. As the new year dawned I was reading through the Psalms and was inspired to write a few songs. I knew that I was being called to a deeper connection with God, self, and all those I love. And yet 5 days into 2017 I blew it with my words.

I cried out to God in prayer, Lord, I don’t want to be like those who sharpen their tongues like swords and aim their bitter words like arrows. (Psalms 64:3) Help me not to let my tongue sting like a snake; with the venom of a viper dripping from my lips. (Psalms 140:3) Help me to always remember that the tongue can bring death or life and that I will reap the consequences of the negative or positive words that I use. (Proverbs 18:21)

As I write this I can laugh at myself, grateful for that humbling lesson, I realize that I have a muscular organ that needs to “relax”. The tongue is one of the most powerful muscles in the body and it is impossible to tame it on my own. My words and my attitude were critical, caustic, and careless. I had failed that morning because I neglected to connect with God, my husband, or myself. I allowed anger at myself for missing the alarm to ignite a fire that led to using an unloving tone with someone I dearly love. Fortunately, we had an hour long drive together on the way to Belize so I was able to confess my frustration and ask for forgiveness. I know that Tom does not like waking anyone up. He had set a time limit and was going to wake me at 9. He knows how quickly I can get ready and decided to wait and let me sleep. He knows how important sleep is to me due to my fibromyalgia. My muscles are always tense and sleep helps them to relax. He’s on my team and is not against me. I know that.

This year of connection has led to many lessons, large and small. I cannot connect with others through my arrogance, self-righteousness, or pride. I must take a deep breath and count the cost of my words before I speak. Making connections takes humility. Making connections takes vulnerability. Making connections also takes courage. Connecting with my husband means turning toward Tom in love rather than turning away in times of frustration. I'm still a work in progress. But, I pray that my lesson in the taming of the tongue will serve as a warning for someone else.

P.S. Don't forget to double check what's going on your toothbrush!

5 Secrets to Deepening Intimacy as a Couple

A flooded bridge, lionfish fingers with sweet potato fries, and a long drive home in the middle of the night were just a few of our memories from Punta Gorda.

When we learned that the Legacy Captivated Outreach Tour I’ve been a part of was going to a place in Belize that we had not yet visited we knew we wanted to go together! Our time there was way too brief and we hope to go again. It was surprisingly peaceful and everyone we encountered was so friendly. We had a great time going from house to house with the outreach team, inviting people out to the concert, giving away some of my cds, and praying with those who asked for prayer.

Tom and I chose to drive down early so that we could spend a bit of time checking out the town before the outreach started. And both of us were so glad that we made that choice. We’d had a few busy weeks prior to the trip and we discovered an atmosphere that allowed us the chance to reconnect and refresh our tired spirits. One of my friends referred to our trip as little “honeymoon” for us and I agree with her.

Over the past few weeks I’ve been thinking about why that trip was so special for us even though it ended with a little more adventure than we’d planned for due to the torrential rains that flooded the bridge on the only way in or out of the district. Tom and I realized that there are five reasons why we both felt a deeper level of connection and intimacy on that short little trip.

1 We truly enjoy traveling:

The U.S. Travel Association reported that couples who travel together are significantly more satisfied with their relationships, enjoy better sex, and have improved romance long after the trip ends.

Exploring new places is always a joy for us. Seeing God’s creation is never boring. Our favorite travel destinations usually involve the coastline. Strolling hand in hand near water is always romantic, relaxing, and inspiring. Punta Gorda had the invigorating smell of the sea with the breeze to match. The beauty of the Caribbean was on full display for miles and miles in the distance.

2 We love eating together:

A study by a team of Dutch and Canadian psychologists revealed that the simple act of eating a meal together can help bring you and your partner to an emotionally better place and create more intimacy in your relationship.

Whether we are sampling new foods or enjoying old favorites it’s fun to sit and chat over a good meal. It gives us time to unwind, make plans, or just simply enjoy each other’s company. Taking a break from cell phones, work, and other distractions is definitely nurturing to our relationship.

3 We shared laughter:

There is great satisfaction to be found in creating humor as a couple. Research found that "playfulness between romantic partners is a crucial component in bonding and establishing relational security" and that laughter, "particularly shared laughter, is an important indicator of romantic attraction”.

I remember telling God that I wanted to laugh for the rest of my life. And I know that he brought Tom and I together for that reason. Whether we are laughing over something that occurred along the way in our travels, or over something seen or heard while we’re out ("pimento cheese" - text me & I'll clue you in on the joke), or even Tom photobombing my efforts to capture our moments together on film, we’ve always found humor as a way to deepen our bond.

4 Our shared faith was strengthened:

We’ve valued our mutual faith in God over the past 35 years of our marriage. No matter what we face together we do it with God’s help and guidance each step of the way. As we were out with the team going from house to house my admiration and respect for Tom grew each time he offered to pray for someone, I felt supported as he prayed for me before I sang that evening, and it was a great comfort to pray together before we drove home in the middle of the night when the flood waters had receded from the bridge. Research also validates the importance of shared beliefs but our own personal experiences of weathering the literal and figurative storms in life strengthened and encouraged by our faith in God have been invaluable to us.  

5 We created positive memories:

Each time we travel we add the memento of a shared experience to our collection. One of my songs, Love Is, is based on a list of memories we’ve created. Drawing on those memories is part of the fun of being together. Even our four hour drive home from Punta Gorda in the dark of the night evokes a positive memory of supporting one another through encouraging words and prayer as we navigated unlit portions of the highway and narrow one vehicle bridges in the rain.

Each trip we take together, no matter how short, is a time of re-connection, renewal, and romance. And I can hardly wait for the next time as I cherish each memory of all the trips we’ve taken over the years. God has been good and we have been blessed!

Princes' Isles, Turkey

Grand Bazaar, Istanbul, Turkey

Pune, India

Paris, France

Cancun, Mexico